
Here’s how to deal with unwanted behavior while still maintaining your cool:

Know Your Rights
Every workplace should have clear policies on harassment, including how to report incidents and what steps are taken to protect employees. Make sure you’re familiar with these procedures so that if you need to report something, you know exactly what to do.
Keep Calm, Stay Professional
It can be challenging, but staying calm in the face of inappropriate behavior is crucial. You want to avoid escalating the situation while still making it clear that certain behaviors won’t be tolerated. Responding with confidence, even if you’re uncomfortable, lets the person know you’re in control.
Find Allies on the Course
If you’re feeling unsafe or uneasy, connect with your fellow staff members or regular golfers you trust. Having people on the course who can look out for you makes a big difference. Plus, customers are less likely to act inappropriately when they know others are watching.
Prioritize Your Well-Being
It’s easy to brush off inappropriate behavior or feel like you just need to “put up with it,” but your well-being always comes first. If you ever feel unsafe or disrespected, speak up. No job is worth sacrificing your comfort or sense of safety.
While most customers are respectful, unwanted admirers do exist, and it’s important to know how to handle these situations. By setting boundaries, staying professional, and knowing when to ask for support, you can protect yourself and keep the focus on doing your job well. Remember, you’re not just there to serve drinks—you’re also there to ensure a great experience for golfers while maintaining your dignity and safety.


